Question by david d: need a mature advise regarding this situation?
… I have been with my boyfriend/partner for 1 year. I truly love him unconditionally however when we started to date he had told me that he was coming out of 8 year old relationship with someone a lot older than him, to be exact he is 34 and the other guy is 65 and I’m 26 so you got the picture. Because I love and loved him a lot I told him that’s fine I understand and respect the fact that he is coming out of a relationship and it also gave me a confidence that he is capable of having long term relationships” that’s what I’m looking for” and that’s why I continued my dating with him and then it went into more intense and deep relationship. We had our ups and downs in the past 1 year however I was always understanding towards him and very patient. It came a to a point and time when he told me that he couldn’t see me every day and he could see me only 1-2 a week because the other man was giving him hard time and he was too scared of something might happen with the old guy. I know most of you would ask me why did I put up with him and the only answer I have is because I loved and still love him with my entire heart and I’ve told him that several times and also told him that his happens is my priority and if he is happy than I’m happy. To make the long story short over the Memorial Day weekend I had a planed a small trip to Carmel CA and he knew about this well in advance. That week I saw him on Thursday and he told me that he’ll be going to Vegas with the older man because older guy had surprised him with Vegas trip. It was extremely difficult for me to accept it but I was still understanding about the situation because I didn’t want anything bad to happen with the old man. I had told my boyfriend to text when he gets there safe and sound and he did. I didn’t talk with because he turned his cell phone off; him until he came back from Vegas on Tuesday. After he came back we had a conversation he told me that he wants to be best friends with me and nothing will change in our relationship but we are not going to be intimately active with each other aka relationship without sex. I asked him what’s going to happen with the old man and his response was “Babe I have to be with him to take care of him because he is old and I’m scared something will happen, and when I’m with you I know I’m killing him slowly so lets just be best friends have the same “relationship” but no sex and maybe when older man retires and possible leaves country we’ll be together because we both are young and smart”. Like I said in the begging I love him a lot and I’m a type of a person that when I love someone I’ll give my everything but what he is asking from me is to scarifies my happiness for a 65 year old man. After that conversation I kept myself away from him and he started texting me telling me that he missed me and loves me no matter what and wants to see me for the last time before I leave him, because he wants to give me something. I told him that I need my own time and space and I’m not leaving him and we are going to be just friends as he wanted. His text messages are all about how lucky he is that he has me in his life and knows me and that he’ll be really happy if I never leave him for rest of his life, so I’m so confused about this situation and don’t know what else to do, however meantime he is spending time with this 65 year old guy. He asked me a few times to see me and I responded that I need time to digest all of this before I’m able to meet up with him however we spoke on the phone for a few times but that’s it. Please help me what do you guys think I should do. Thanks

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Answer by john
If you are happy sharing this man with his senior citizen friend then that is fine but you do not sound happy. He obviously thinks you are OK with this situation but I think he has got alot of nerve.
Are you going to wait years and years while your man plays Florence Nightingale to someone else?
I cannot speak for you but I do know that I have way too much self esteem to put up with this kind of thing.
If you are not happy with all this then you need to give him an ultimatum…and if necessary, move on.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5249RIe5gw4

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Question by david d: HELP WITH THIS PROBLEM?
What should I do about my “relationship?
I have been with my boyfriend/partner for 1 year. I truly love him unconditionally however when we started to date he had told me that he was coming out of 8 year old relationship with someone a lot older than him, to be exact he is 34 and the other guy is 65 and I’m 27 so you got the picture. Because I love and loved him a lot I told him that’s fine I understand and respect the fact that he is coming out of a relationship and it also gave me a confidence that he is capable of having long term relationships” that’s what I’m looking for” and that’s why I continued my dating with him and then it went into more intense and deep relationship. We had our ups and downs in the past 1 year however I was always understanding towards him and very patient. It came a to a point and time when he told me that he couldn’t see me every day and he could see me only 1-2 a week because the other man was giving him hard time and he was too scared of something might happen with the old guy. I know most of you would ask me why did I put up with him and the only answer I have is because I loved and still love him with my entire heart and I’ve told him that several times and also told him that his happens is my priority and if he is happy than I’m happy. To make the long story short over the Memorial Day weekend I had a planed a small trip to Carmel CA and he knew about this well in advance. That week I saw him on Thursday and he told me that he’ll be going to Vegas with the older man because older guy had surprised him with Vegas trip. It was extremely difficult for me to accept it but I was still understanding about the situation because I didn’t want anything bad to happen with the old man. I had told my boyfriend to text when he gets there safe and sound and he did. I didn’t talk with because he turned his cell phone off; him until he came back from Vegas on Tuesday. After he came back we had a conversation he told me that he wants to be best friends with me and nothing will change in our relationship but we are not going to be intimately active with each other aka relationship without sex.
I asked him what’s going to happen with the old man and his response was “Babe I have to be with him to take care of him because he is old and I’m scared something will happen, and when I’m with you I know I’m killing him slowly so lets just be best friends have the same “relationship” but no sex and maybe when older man retires and possible leaves country we’ll be together because we both are young and smart”. Like I said in the begging I love him a lot and I’m a type of a person that when I love someone I’ll give my everything but what he is asking from me is to scarifies my happiness for a 65 year old man. After that conversation I kept myself away from him and he started texting me telling me that he missed me and loves me no matter what and wants to see me for the last time before I leave him, because he wants to give me something. I told him that I need my own time and space and I’m not leaving him and we are going to be just friends as he wanted. His text messages are all about how lucky he is that he has me in his life and knows me and that he’ll be really happy if I never leave him for rest of his life, so I’m so confused about this situation and don’t know what else to do, however meantime he is spending time with this 65 year old guy. He asked me a few times to see me and I responded that I need time to digest all of this before I’m able to meet up with him however we spoke on the phone for a few times but that’s it. Please help me what do you guys think I should do. Thanks

Now he wants us to be “best friends” basically have the same relationship but no commitment he keeps on repeating that i’m a free man and i can do anything i want then he said that he wants to have sex with but still be friends… I’m so confused and not sure what to do how should i handle this situation please help me and don’t be mean. Thank you

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Answer by DM
Darling, you don’t have a boyfriend.

He’s hedging his bets hoping he’s in the will when the old guy goes….he won’t be.

Don’t be a doormat waiting to be stepped on. Let him go. You deserve better. Peace.

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Question by MrDover ? U: Does this sound like a good money making proposal?
I received the following in my e-mail:

TREAT AS URGENT PLEASE !!!!!!!
FROM THE DESK OF DR ALHAJI DANCO
BILL AND EXCHANGE MANAGER
BANK OF AFRICA (BOA)
OUAGADOUGOU – BURKINA FASO
DEAR FRIEND,
I AM MR.ALHAJI DANCO,THE BILL AND EXCHANGE MANAGER IN THE BANK OF AFRICA (BOA), OUAGADOU-BURKINA FASO,IN WEST AFRICA. WITH DUE RESPECT AND REGARDS,I HAVE DECIDED TO CONTACT YOU ON A BUSINESS TRANSACTION THAT WILL BE VERY BENEFICIAL TO BOTH OF US AT HE END OF THE TRANSACTION.IN THE BANK HERE I DISCOVERD A VERY HUGE SUM OF MONEY BELONGING TO A DECEASED PERSON, A FOREIGNER WHO DIED IN A PLANE CRASH WITH HIS ENTIRE FAMILY SOME YEARS BACK HERE AND THE FUND HAS BEEN DORMANT IN HIS ACCOUNT WITH THE BANK HERE,WITHOUT ANYBODY TO CLAIM THE FUND EITHER A MEMBER OF HIS FAMILY OR HIS RELATIVE.
I KEPT THIS INFORMATION SECRET WITHIN MYSELF TO ENABLE THE WHOLE PLAN AND IDEA I HAVE BEEN NURSING OVER THIS FUND IN THE BANK HERE TO BE PROFITABLE AND SUCCESSFUL DURING THE TIME OF EXECUTION OF THIS TRANSACTION.THE AMOUNT INVOLVED IN THIS DEAL IS TEN MILLION UNITED STATES DOLLARS(,000,000).MEANWHILE,ALL THE WHOLE ARRANGEMENTS AND STRATEGIES NEEDED TO HELP YOU PUT CLAIM OVER THIS FUND AS THE BONA-FIDE NEXT OF KIN OR BENEFICIARY TO THE DECEASED, WILL BEFORWARD TO YOU UPON YOUR ACCEPTANCE TO EXECUTE THIS BUSINESS WITH ME.I WILL SEND YOU ALL THE NECESSARY INFORMATION THAT WILL HELP YOU MAKE SUCCESSFUL CLAIM OF THIS FUND AS SOON AS YOU INDICATE YOUR INTEREST AND WILLINGNESS TO ASSIST ME AND ALSO SHARE THE GREAT BENEFIT TOGETHER WITH ME.
IN FACT,I COULD HAVE DONE THIS DEAL ALONE BUT BECAUSE OF MY POSITION HERE AS A CITIZEN OF THIS COUNTRU AND AS A CIVIL SERVANT(BANK WORKER), WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO OPERATE A FOREIGN BANK ACCOUNT.THAT WOULD EVENTUALLY RAISE AN EYE BROWN ON MY SIDE DURING THE TIME OF TRANSFER IF I WANT TO CLAIM THE FUND MYSELF ALONE BECAUSE I WORK IN THIS BANK.THIS IS THE ACTUAL REASON WHY IT WILL REQUIRE A FOREIGNER AS A SECOND PARTY,WHO WILL FORWARD CLAIMS AS THE NEXT OF KIN WITH AFFIDAVIT OF TRUST OF OATH TO THE BANK AND ALSO PRESENT A FORIEGN ACCOUNT WHERE THE SAID AMOUNT OF MONEY (,MILLION UNTED STATE DOLLARS) WILL BE TRANSFERRED INTO AFTER DUE VERIFICATIONS AND CLARIFICATIONS IN THE BANK HERE.
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ALL OTHER NECESSARY INFORMATION WILL BE SENT TO YOU WHEN I HEAR FROM YOU.
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THANKS AND BEST REGARDS.
YOURS FAITHFULLY,
DR ALHAJI DANCO

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Yeah Jili,, he seems real serious about this..I mean, ,500,000 is a lot of money. We could probably just buy all the children in Ouagadougou Burkina Faso and live next door to Angelina Jolie

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Answer by Jilibean (Christmas ILF Posse)
Absolutely, Mr. D! I sure hope you are planning to share with one of your most favoritest contacts in the whole wide world?! I’m in! I would like to marry him and have many babbies.
I am particularly impressed with the caps lock, for added emphasis..a very nice touch, indeed.

Edit: Well, I’m in, Mr. D. Let’s do it! I mean it all seems so legit!

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Question by Dimond Tiara: is this a good story plot part 3?
dont start from here begin from begening

for part one

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090913175514AAL0eg3

for part two

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmxRrCe1njxd8wP6nBCjIRLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090913180105AA84TC8

Ken Gregory: fairy prince, dated and dumped Kelsey after finding out she likes Jake, crushes on abagail, known ashley since birth, senior in high school, !8 years old, alergic to cucumber, kidnapped from fariytophia to become a prince ( in fairy world their are three parts to the land Fairy world, Fairytophia and Fairy Land, no one know where fairytophia is anymore but before thats where people would look for their new queens and kings) best friend is Jake and Chompion

Kelsey Jenkins: italian-american, has had a crush on jake since she met him, loves ken and doesnt know why he dumped her, her parents are divorced, her dad is a famous metal rock star and her mom is a famous ballet star, she used to be blonde but she dyed her hair black and purple when she was 14,jelous of abagale and summer, bottom of the social ladder

Angie Vercelo: caucasion, doesnt get why she is hated, her parents live in austin, likes every guy, never had a boy friend, not that smart, a wannabe mean girl, bottom of the social ladder

Marissa Carmichle: caucasion, she and her dad used to steal cars until she was sent to juvinile jail moved away and is starting a new life, know as the girl next door, her best friend is Kelsey and sometimes angie, likes ken, tries to avoid drama but fail everytime, used to be abagials best friend, wishes she could live in new york

alexis,summer,nikki,and ricky: are all spies working toget her to find out a thing called the code (earth and fairy world are linked to gether buy three gems the Crystal heart, Ice cherries and Diamond Star the Crystal heart is insed of ashley’s heart ang the ice cherries are in farytophia but the diamond Star is hiding and the code has to do with this group of friends) but they fear that they are part of the code

Ashley and Ken: are not brother and siter they are just best friends, that are struggling to beat their older sibling to become queen and king of their own land

Adam,Marge, and Jill: don’t lnow who is going to marry who

Eric, Jake and Britney: all don’t want to be ruler of their own land but their mother will retire soon and they can;t decide who is going to rule the country or not. if they don’t decide soon Eric ( because he is the oldest) will become king

Ashley,Ken,Chompion,and Eric: have know each other since kindergarten
sorry that its so long but it really isnt so do u love it or hate it and which person is your favorite and why. it is a little cheesey though but we were little back then we didnt even know what cheesey even meanT

haters will be repoted
sorry it is so confusing trying to move fast

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Answer by theericmartinxii
Dear GOD. This must be made into a movie of a parody of a young teenage life. 5 STARS. XD

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